I am not actually seeing anyone..although I maybe dating someone - so I like to think I am sitting on the very edge of the shelf of life. But every since I announced to a couple of friends I keep getting various mixed messages from Friend A. Friend A has implied on many occasions that we "Hook Up" (But if you have been reading my blog - meaningless sex) - and I have stated that "I am ready to actually play at this whole relationship thing." Which didnt go down well with Friend A - who keep referring to our sexual tension...apparently (I am yet to fully see what Friend A means). No apparently does not mean NO!
We were conversing last night - I was explaining that I am now on date 3 with this person, and so I am not wanting or looking for "hook ups" (again please refer to my previous post). They're reply "but you're not actually dating", which of course is right - I am not actually dating (but when do you go past the dating stage to the BF/GF stage - this transitions has puzzled me for quite a number of years, as i failed to make that transition on a number of occasions) and the reply "well plenty of time then" - plenty of time for what? So i rolled over and went to sleep...
Do people become more attractive the more unattainable they get - or has society just changed so that casual hook up are seen as acceptable? mmmm not wholly convinced - I like the fact that the person I am seeing does not have someone else in each port.
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